It was a solitary time, and after a spell of deep blues, I made a certain amount a peace with it. I liked what I did for a living, who I knew, and where I lived. And it is still my theory now, that until I reached that sense of self and independence, I would not find that elusive, very specific person I was longing for. But at that point I was resigned, and had no theories.
Two months later he arrived on my blog in reponse to a query on mine on his website, chewing Japanese gum because I had written about it.
Uncannily, he met, and surpassed, the laundry list of expectations I had sub-consciously and wittingly long fostered, fine-tuned and dismissed as unachievable in one man.
Wow, how time flies. And yet it is perfect. Happy birthday to the blog. The countdown is on. Chill the cat and groom the champagne!
ReplyDeleteI didn't know that you met Vince, er Beence, through the blogosphere. How wonderful! I'm sorry that Vancouver will be left behind, but how wonderful that he'll be joining you, permanently, soon!!
ReplyDeleteHappy Blogoversary, Marie! Wonderful news that you and Beence -- and Estorbo -- will be together for keeps ...
ReplyDeleteKeli'i
happy blogoversary!
ReplyDeleteyou met vince via the blog?! incredible. clearly there is a "modern love" column just waiting to happen here ;)
celebrations all around! love this post and your story :) xx
ReplyDeleteAh, but Vancouver isn't going anywhere, and you can enjoy visiting like locals in the future. :)
ReplyDeleteHappy blog birthday, and here's to the future!